Hey man, where in Ohio are ya at?

I told ya so many times... I'm only a couple hours' drive down I-81... We've had so many of these talks... You didn't forget, did you?

Excellent opinion, hangfor8! Alot of people are dating way 2 young. I had a friend who was all of 10 years old, and she was currently dating a 13 year old boy! And, because girls and boys are dating at such young ages, that is y there are so many 13 and 14 year old moms! They're not mature enough too handle what a boy may suggest, like "it".

I think that at about age 16 or so, kids are old enough to understand how seriouus dating really is, and are mature enough to take thingd in hand when the boy/girl is suggesting doing "it".

Does anyone else agree?

hey now! dont make me sound like little kid. i AM mature enough and i DO understand how serious dating is.(PS: i only said "it" because i said something along those lines and it caused me to get banned for 48hours) Also, nothing yall say is gonna have that much of an impact on my decision on whether or not to have sex, i just wanted to know what yall would do...and at least we are only like 1year and 3months apart... unlike my friend who is 14 and dating a 19 year old...

PS: 2day i went and bought condoms if that makes yall feel a LITTLE bit better......

MCH, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to be condoscending, or talk to you like you are kid. Heck, you're almost 2 years old than me!


The reason I said "it" was because it just feels wierd writing..well, u know what.

Well, if are you making the decision that you believe is best for you and your girl, then go right along with it. It's YOUR desicion. I hope I didn't offend you, but that's my opnion.

that is why you are too young... you don't care what anyone else has to say or what advice they can offer from past experiences, and your making decisions uneducated... with an attitude like that your gonna get burned fast.

just like professor said.......at the end it will come back and bite you in the butt........good luck with your decisions....madcrazyhunter

See now boy what i tell ya on the last topic about nyquil? Dont go and get all beligerent, that is just gonna make you make the wrong decisions. What are you doing thinkn about sex anyway? Man you should be worried about other stuff.........well your probably like" how do u know you was never my age" well let me tell ya son, i am 25 and i have two son's one is seven and the other is 2yrs old, my oldest son was born on the second day of my high school senior year, i was working full time and going to high school full time to support my son at such a young age, when i should have been worrying about cars and hunting, and just being a kid. But oh no, i just had to grow up right then. I am telling you girls at that age are trouble man, trust me and the other men and women here. How do u think we know, BECAUSE WE HAVE BEEN THERE!! A wise person learns from others mistakes instead of making his own. Now look at me, i am 25 years old i have a house and too much responsiblity for a guy my age, i should be out running around, and going on hunting trips all over the world and conquering things.........but, now i cant. I love my boys and im thankfull for them, im saying dont grow up so fast kid, enjoy your time here on earth and accomplish something other then susie Q down the street,lol. Good luck boy

I learned from my dad. He and his girlfriend had my half sister durring their Jr. year in High School. Had to give her up for adoption because her dad and they just didnt think they were ready. They did get married after school, but she passed away from liver cancer about a year later. We found my sister a couple of years ago, she was a totally different person because of who she was raised by.
By the time we found her, she had a kid durring her senior year and had to take some sort of schooling through the school, but the work was done at home. The dad was in the military then and I still aint met him. She got weird and now wont talk to us anymore but then had another kid and then married the dad. She is 22 and has 2 kids.

I learned from their experiences that sex before marrage and EXPECIALLY while still in school is one hell of a BAD idea because of what can happen.

p.s. Rubbers can and do break.

Hntngirl, if you moved out west you have more boys who if they hurt you bad, all you do is let their momma know and she will whup their sorry little batuskies off! You are an amazingly nice girl, don't let those NY scum get ahold of you!

Man, the fact that you are saying this when you haven't even dated her makes me positive she will say no and then you will get angry, you know the rest. Do your parents know about the condoms? Didn't think so. That you are not even 15 yet and you are thinking like that means you need to go to your church and listen. Read your bible. PRAY! Don't want all the crap that is on the television these days!!!! Grow up a lot before you engage in intercourse. I am going to be celibate until my wedding night, I owe that to my future wife.