You go, j3k2cl!

madcrazyhunter is your friends telling you to do it......they might have had sex before.......but you don't have to........

just read "are you really in love"

deerhunter, I'm from Germantown, the closest big city is dayton.
Hey madcrazyhunter, I understand how ya feel. But u gotta remember one thing, sex is like the "grand finale" of a relationship. Its meant to be the thing you do with the person you'll be with forever. People that do it when a relationship is just starting usually loose interest in the other person because their is no more "forbidden attraction." Compair it to deer hunting, when I first started I was like a hound after that first buck. Once I got him I still love to hunt, more now than ever, but no deer will ever be as much as an obsession as that first one. I'm not saying that she ain't the right oen for ya, if you are as crazy over her as you say you are then there is a good chance she is the right one. But just think, how many peopel do you know that start dating a girl when they're 15 and continue until they get married? Probably none! I think its because at our age we are not mature enough to keep a relationship going without making fatal mistakes that ruin the relationship. Thats the main reason I would never date my favorite girl, because almost every girl you date in your teens can be checked OFF the "prospect list" in teh future. Just my 3 cents worth!

I personally am not sure people are able to "love" at the age of 14. You can think that you are "in love" but I think a big part of love is being mature. At 14 you are not mature physically, mentally, psychologically. Sex is not love. Love is not sex. Love is being able to say, "no we won't have sex, you mean enough to me to wait until we're married." That's what love is...a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual bond. Sex was not meant for recreation, and when it has negative effects on people (and it does, trust me) most of the time they have feelings of regret, abandonment, and usually a girl is left with a kid, who has no dad, no support or anything.

14 is too young to even know what sex is IMO. But I can't convince yall of anything...I'll be praying that all make the right decision.

Hopefully, nobody on here will make a mistake they regret, by becoming a father at such a young age, for a few minutes of physical pleasure...and miss out on what most of their life woulda been.

Dirty diapers, crying babies at 4 in the morning, dropping out of school, working 40-50 hours a week getting minimum wage so that you can buy food for your kid, at the such a young age...that's not meant to happen to anybody.

SOMEONE PLEASE, PLEASE, LOCK THIS FORUM!!!! This kid is giving me a migrain[]

giving you a migraine???lol, he's giving all of us responsible ones a bad rep!!!

For those of you getting headaches from this, I'll give you a little bit of advice; don't read it. Skip onto the next topic. I'm sure this thread was put at the top for a reason. What would that reason be? Probably, and this is just a guess, to discuss "Relationships, Girls, Love, and Dating." A lot of youngsters due to whatever reason have a lot of questions regarding these subjects and what better way to discuss them than online with their peers. Not only does discussing it over the internet remove that embrassment you might receive from talking about it in person, but it also opens the doors for other questions to be asked too.

For those of you who haven't yet read my response in Are You Really in Love, I suggest you do so, I may have answered some questions and elaborated on others' responses.

hey i was wondering... i heard mountain dew lowers guys sperm count.. not that i care. i aint gonna be needed them for awhile. i was just wondering if it was a myth

Yes, it's just a myth. Otherwise, I'd be sterile...[]