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Old 06-21-2008 | 03:20 PM
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The day I give any hunt, priority over my family would be a day I would need a good beating.
I'm with ya Chris....

But it is amazing how many people thump their chests when they talk about doing ANYTHING family oriented during hunting season. No getting married during deer season. No family vacations (if, indeed, they take a family and not a hunting vacation). Nothing....during hunting season.

I wonder how many families have been destroyed via deer hunting mentalities.

I could go on....but I won't.

My family is my life.
Mine to and they understand it's what I love and they understand that! However if there is something family planned during hunting season then hunting waits! Being married to the best wife ever she allows me to hunt when I want knowing we live off the meat and I am providing for my family. Also she knows I love to do it. just like her going out with the girls dancing she loves it and I don't say no.You got to give as much as you go!

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Old 06-21-2008 | 03:23 PM
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The day I give any hunt, priority over my family would be a day I would need a good beating.
I'm with ya Chris....

But it is amazing how many people thump their chests when they talk about doing ANYTHING family oriented during hunting season. No getting married during deer season. No family vacations (if, indeed, they take a family and not a hunting vacation). Nothing....during hunting season.

I wonder how many families have been destroyed via deer hunting mentalities.

I could go on....but I won't.

My family is my life.
W/out question. Or fishing mentalities, lust mentalities, alcohol mentalities, drug mentalities, work mentalities....The list could go on and on. The point is, family typically just isn't first anymore. I can tell you though, that getting married during deer season SUCKS. I was married opening day of MO's firearm season, and I haven't gotten to hunt one yet. You may call it chest thumping but.....if you're a hunter, there's 8 other months to do it in. It just doesn't work. Think about it....if you're a hunter, and have a "deer hunting mentality", why get married at that time to begin with?? It's gonna cause problems. So, for the sake of the FAMILY, do it a different time of the year.
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Old 06-21-2008 | 03:29 PM
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I would consider it my primary RECREATIONAL priority. But certainly not above the responsibilities I have to my loved ones. I've heard plenty of horror stories of spouses/girlfriends who go absolutely ballistic ifa guy doesn't devote 110% of their freetime to family. That's every bit as unhealthy as the schmuck who calls off work and forgets s/he has children during the deer season. It's all aboutcompromise.
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Old 06-21-2008 | 03:34 PM
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Family is priority number ONE. Above and beyond anything else.


BUT.......... why on Earth would someone agree to planning a wedding during hunting season? What would the difference be if they had it after?[:-] Also that means x amount of anniversaries which would fall during hunting season. I'd be talking my significant other into a summer wedding.
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Old 06-21-2008 | 03:54 PM
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No getting married during deer season. No family vacations (if, indeed, they take a family and not a hunting vacation). Nothing....during hunting season.
And what is wrong with that?
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Old 06-21-2008 | 03:57 PM
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And what is wrong with that?
Nothing....as long as you're honest about your priorities.
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Old 06-21-2008 | 04:03 PM
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Oh ok, I missunderstood. I thought people or you were saying that its bad of hunters to do that.
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Old 06-21-2008 | 04:04 PM
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Family is first, there should really be no question here.... but describe to me at what point do you guys decide that your going hunting?? I know that this will pertain to very few, but with somehting like a 51% divorce rate in the US. Somebody on here has a nagging wife. and thats what im getting at. You love her to death... but you cant take a dump without her fussing about how many sheets of toilet paper youve used.what about you guys?? do you just go and bear the burden afterwards... maybe this has nothing to do with intended thread... im just curious.
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Old 06-21-2008 | 04:11 PM
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Oh ok, I missunderstood. I thought people or you were saying that its bad of hunters to do that.
It's not my place to say what's right for anyone else.

But we all know the guy who would NEVER take his wife away for a weekend during hunting season.

We all know that guy who has children with crooked teeth, but he has a new bow.

We all know someone who has a home full of mounts, a cabinet full of guns....a new 4 wheel drive in the driveway.....and his house still has the wheels that it usedto get to its homesite on.

We all know that guy who's single, now....because he made it very clear, at some time during his marriage, that his hunting time would NOT be compromised by anything other than hunting.

I'm not passing judgement on him. He's made that bed. He's identified his "priority".

I lnow them....you know them.
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Old 06-21-2008 | 04:17 PM
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Oh ok, I missunderstood. I thought people or you were saying that its bad of hunters to do that.
It's not my place to say what's right for anyone else.

But we all know the guy who would NEVER take his wife away for a weekend during hunting season.

We all know that guy who has children with crooked teeth, but he has a new bow.

We all know someone who has a home full of mounts, a cabinet full of guns....a new 4 wheel drive in the driveway.....and his house still has the wheels that it usedto get to its homesite on.

We all know that guy who's single, now....because he made it very clear, at some time during his marriage, that his hunting time would NOT be compromised by anything other than hunting.

I'm not passing judgement on him. He's made that bed. He's identified his "priority".

I lnow them....you know them.
That is a very true and sad statement.
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