A WORD OF CAUTION
#21
Typical Buck
Joined: Sep 2004
Posts: 569
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From: Troutdale Oregon
Nothing anyone can say hear will change how you feel , Ive. been in your shoes. But trust me, if you love hunting, you need to find a different gal, or give up the sport. In the off season you may get back with her only to go through this next season. My wife played this game with me to Control her man. I showed her the door. And told her to brow beat some other sucker. & years later were still together 14 years in all. and now we have a understanding. Don't mess with hunting time. and I'll love her the best I can till the day I die. But piss on my huntin boots. and she'll find the door. PS. I have 5 kids. Support would still be better than not hunting. Funny thing is most of the anti hunting stuff was from her parents( mom control freak) I walked up to her looked my mother in law straight in the eyes and told her I wasn't her boy!, I am my own man!! and if you keep it up she can live with you. This is not a joke or threat its a promis. Haven't had a problem since. But then I GOT SAND!!! DO YOU
#22
Nontypical Buck
Joined: Feb 2003
Posts: 3,903
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From: Wisconsin
No matter what happens , just remember one thing , you still have a child!! It always bothers me when I hear other guys talk about their divorce and refer to their kids in past tence , like "I had 3 kids". You'll always have you're kid! If things can't be worked out with your wife ,it's time to start spending even more quality time with your child. More than ever before!
God I hate hearing about this stuff. I really hope you guys can work it out!
God I hate hearing about this stuff. I really hope you guys can work it out!
#25
Joined: Dec 2005
Posts: 102
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sorry to hear that, maybe if you visited them every now and then she would reconsider. and maybe take her and the kids out somewhere, it always worked for my dad. but don't take my word for it, some families are different. good luck
#26
Sound's as though this could be an easy fix .I'm a very lucky guy myself because my wife knew coming into this relationship that i was a die hard hunter .My wife play's baseball in the summer and I tend to the kid's need's as need be if our schedule's conflict I'm able to negotiate it so that it's easy for both of us .I never put anything in the way of my family affair's ,they come first and I know it . We alway's discuss our plan's before going ahead and making plan's ,this way we're both clear on what we're doing .I also do a lot of the jouse work and odd job's around the house ,so that she doesn't have to do them and this give's the browny point's that i need for the fall month's of hunting .I hope thing's work out for you ,just remember you got to give a bit in order to get a bit ,so negotiate your time .
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