No matter what happens , just remember one thing , you still have a child!! It always bothers me when I hear other guys talk about their divorce and refer to their kids in past tence , like "I had 3 kids". You'll always have you're kid! If things can't be worked out with your wife ,it's time to start spending even more quality time with your child. More than ever before!

God I hate hearing about this stuff. I really hope you guys can work it out!