hey man i dont want to say I know how you feel but I can relate to you...My hero since I can remember has been my dad and he was the toughest man i know but now all he can do is sit on the couch and watch TV cause of an inoperable malignant brain tumor....also just a month ago my buddy on our college baseball team took a line drive off the head while sitting in the dugout and he has had brain surgery also...it helps to talk about so dont bottle it up man...

sorry to here about your friend prayers sen to you and his family