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A girl at school that i like well her friend got in a fight and she seperated it. Well some guy grabbed her and choked her out till she passed out.[:@] I know if i saw that guy do that i would have broke his nose i hate when a guy hurts a girl. I realy want to kick this guysbutt and i dont know what i should do. My mom nows all about it she said i should do what is right that is the problem i dont know what to do yall help me out

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well it all depends...is the guy bigger than you? if he is i say you get him from behind like he got her!;) really though you got to realize you gota pick and choose where you choose to take care of it...the school wont recognize that you did it in defence of a girl ever...especially not after a day or more has passed, so expect to get suspended....that being said any guy who hits a girl deserves to be beat to a bloody pulp! even if you dont win the fight, if you land one solid one than you did all you could to straighten things out. most will tell you the longer you wait the more wrong it is for you to get involved...i say, the longer you wait the less he expects it! ;)

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Hmm, I wouldn't try anything, till you catch him doing anything. But that's total BS with him doin that to a girl. Grabbin necks shouldn't even be done on guys, just means you can't hit;)

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WHAT THE HELL!!! Oh man! Why would he do that!
I agree with Andy on this one make sure you pick and choose your fights.

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jeez, making it sound like its rare that i have good ideas!

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[align=left]i tell you what i would have kicked the crap out of him and if he tryed to get back up i would have knocked him back down. there is no reason that anyone needs to do that to a woman. there is not one reason that there is a possible reason to do it. if he does it again kick the livingsnot out of him man do what ever it takes[/align]

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There is absolutely NO reason to ever lay a finger on a girl. Men who do so are trash, plain and simple.Take care of this if you feel the need, and if you do feel that need, leave him with no question about how you feel about it;)


I know if I was this situation, I wouldn't be writing about it on the internet. It would be taken care of before I could pull up HNI and write the thread;)

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What and Ahole. I agree with Will.

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She's not your girl. Therefore its not your fight. She may not even thank you for it or notice. Heck, she might not even sign your cast.

Men who do such things are scum.

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Who's the scum? the one who choked the girl? Or a guy who beats up a guys for chocking a girl till she passes out?

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beat the livin s#@* out of him if you could take him and ifhe aint huge

hes a big ahole piece of trash[:@][:@]

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im sure she was refearing to the guy who chocked her!

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I hope so. lol

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I was talkin about the guy who choked her

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Not you cubhunter lol, huntingirl89.

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The so-called male that choked the girl is the scum. The last guy that raised a hand to me ended up in an ambulance.

He needs to be taught a lesson, but not by you. Its up to her father.

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he needs to be hurt Not necessarily by you, but by someone that can do it and not get in trouble.

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Can't the father go to jail for kicking a minor's butt[&:]

If I was the father though, it would probably be worth it.

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Yea the father can't touch the kid as far as i know, at least now anyways. If he was there then yes he wouldbe able to at least stop him, but now is premeditated assualt (im not all that good with these terms....yet ;)). As far as beating him up, it would seem heroic and allbut nothing every gets solved by teens fighting and its not like the movies where the girl will come running into your arms. She'll probably think your a creep.

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^^ she doesnt need to know you did anything. if he deserves it, give it to him. Who cares if she knows or not. I can not stand guys messing with girls.

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I hate guys like that. I got in a fight with my sons moms boyfriend because they were arguing and he got really loud and in her face. They were at the gas station up the road and i pulled up on my bike and watched it for a minute and when he got in her face i just walked up besides him and knocked the crap out of him. Then i got my gas and the cops came. When they asked why i did it i said she si standing there holding my son and he came running up in her face. I didnt know if he was gonan hit her or what but i wasnt gonna let it happen. The cop was like "yea i understand,i would have shot him and not thought anything of it if it was my kid".

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First off, Retaks, you have a son?

Secondly it was highly inappropriate for the police officer to say something like that. You know all that uphold the law crap and whatnot.

Third I blame the mother for letting it escalate and still staying with a moron like that.

There is never a need to yell and scream in eachother's faces. I've never once raised my voice to my boyfriend nor he to me out of anger. We argue of course, we're human, but letting it get that bad, heck no!

Getting back to the original post, if you want to teach him a lesson in morals thats fine, but don't do it because you like the girl. Because then you'll expect something out of it, like her to come running to you or something, and she most likely won't and then you'll be disappointed and calling her a number of foul words because you got a black eye or broken this or broken that for her and she didn't even notice. Fighting over girls is just stupid.

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Yea. He will be 2 on Dec 8. Here is a pic of him.It was wrong of the cop to say that but the cops around here dont go by the law very much anyways. Also sorry for hijacking you post a little but to get back on subject, I have another vote for BEAT HIS FACE IN!!!!

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i slightly disagree w/ some of the advice about 'waiting and picking the right time/place' thats BS, you do it imidiatley. who cares where. when you see him walk right up and blast him as hard as you can right in the bottom half of his face. if he is real big the throat is a good option. dont walk up and do the arguing and yelling thing, just walk fast, deliberate and straight at him! dont even say a word. after you wreck yhis day w/ the first hit get a death grip on his collar w/ your weak side and throw the nastiest hay makers you have right into his noise and eye sockets. get his eyes bleedin real good cuz if he does for some reason get up he wont be able to hit what he cant see. remeber you really want hit about 6" behind his face! that will give you the best fallow through and get all your weight behind it. dont stop either, make shure he gets the message. chances are youll get into some trouble maybe get arrestedand bail isnt too bad. but its all worth it if its a good cause. thats exactly how ide handle it but im known as a hot head. hopefully you get this taken care of. lol im all fired up now lol

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Guys, do we really want to start telling kids to beat the crap out of other kids on the Internet all over something we didn't see? That's just wrong. I think all these "beat his face" in comments are a little harsh. I doubt the guy chocked a girl into unconsciousness and got away scott free. Lets get real here.

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ive seen stranger stuff happen. and yes, thats exactly what im tellin him.

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I agree Siman. I highly doubt the whole story is being revealed to us. Choking someone to unconsciousness is severe and actually attempted murder. Therefore I think he would have already been taken care of.

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If you'll read this carefully, you'll note that slick didn't actually see it happen. Attacking someone who hasn't threatened you can get you some serious problems with the law.

Best thing to do would be to MYOB.

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It won't make a girl run into your arms. Maybe if you would have done it while he was choking her, maybe she would consider you. Maybe. But doing it now won't do anything.

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I had my fair share of fights, and I will say violance is not the answer.

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hmmm if u saw it happen i would fight him but if not i would wait to see if its true because after a few tellings of the story people may tend to "stretch" the truth;)

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I too agree, and have a feeling there are a few things the origional poster is overlooking, and perhaps doesnt know. Like the fact that guy probley got expelled from school, got MANDATORY counsleing, a police record for assault and battery, if not attempted murder, the probation he probley got from the cops, ect.

And all this advice your giving the kid is going to get him in ALOT of trouble, for now it is premeditated assault, at the time and place that they guy was strangling her it wouldnt have been, but now it is, and this whole thread is evidence against him, and the punishment will depend on his age, and the wounds inflicted on the buttheadwho strangled her.

My advice: dont trust the guy, if you see him going to hit another girl go ahead and fight him, but dont do it after-the-fact

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I'd get a life and not worry about other peoples problems. You beating him up isn't going to magically make her fall in love with her, it most likely would repel her from you because she thinks your the violent type as well.

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i didnt read it too carefully i guess and im not gonna go back and read itbut did he say he liked this chick?? and he wants to hook up w/ her?? the one that got choked or whatever??

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KICK HIS AZZ SEABAZZ!!!!

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If you get into a fight, atleast dont start it. Lower your shoulder in him while you walk by him, just dont walk up to him and throw a punch. Who cares if he's bigger than you, unless he's and absolute giant. Just cover your face and do WHATEVER it takes to win.

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wait till he does it again a give him one rite it the kisser

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This is still going? lol

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Up here in MA you get in bad trouble for getting in a fight... if you mess someone up too bad that could even result in taking away of your FID card. That alone has prevented me from getting in too many fights.