ditto to what everyone has said...its not the guys...its the girls!

I completely agree that its the girls. Guys will tell you exactly what they want, and granted sometimes you boys do some strange things for reasons we might not always understand, we are still crazy about you. Girls have strange little hints that they try to drop to guys, that the guys almost never get and then the girl gets mad at the guy when he doesn't come through. Girls, go easy on the guys. They're not mind-readers. They're human.

.... I LOVE this woman..... she is just so full of knowledge and so.. TRUTHFUL Why can't they all be like huntngirl

ya but the guy that i know is messing with my head and then i told him to stop and now he is finally telling me the truth and idk if i should break up with my current bf cause i dont like him i like the guy that i am talking about in this fourm and he loves me just like i love him so sould i break up with my current bf that i dont like or stay with him?

haha even if you dont hook up w/ thyis other dude it isnt fair to the one your shacked up w/ now if you dont really care about that much. cut him loose so he can move on

so i break up with my current bf?

if you dont love him it isnt fair to him regaurdless of whether or not you have another one lined up. maybe being single for a while isnt a bad idea for you. figure some **** out. i wouldnt jump imedietly from one tothe otherfor a couple reasons. (a) i think it would makeyou look trashy and easy,and (b) its always better to have a little time to think and see how you feel aftwer a little time.

Okay guys, here's my take on the situation. It wasn't too long ago that if a guy liked a girl, he grabbed her by the hair, dragged her back to his cave and that was it. Eventually it got to the point where if a guy liked a girl, he offered her father a few goats and her father would send her back to the guy's hut with him. Now things have changed around a bit more. If you see a girl you like and her father has enough land for goats and the zoning ordinances allow it, you might try offering him five or six goats. But usually, you are going to have to deal with the girl pretty much directly.

Now we wear short skirts to attract your attention. Those of us with enough to fill out a halter top or a tight t-shirt will go with that too. But we still have that mindset where we expect the guy to TAKE CHARGE. It's just not that difficult. We show up in that short skirt or shorts (maybea halter top) and you get interested. Maybe we even walk up to you and say "HI." You then respond with something like, "Hey would you like to come back to my cave, (hut, apartment) with me and be the mother of my children?"You might phrase it a little more subtly, but that's basically what it amounts to. Then she has to decide, "Is this guy gonna be a good father to my children?" Or in other words, "Is this guy a man or a boy?"

There will be a few more details, but that's basically it. The guy has to make the moves and let a girl know who and what he is. (Meanwhile, of course, you are deciding if she would be a good mother to your kids.) So a lot of conversation has to take place. (Conversation, not wrestling.)

I had to take the initiative with my husband because there were a couple of very serious hurdles we had to get over. I don't understand the drama that so many girls go through with the "dating scene." I had one date each with two different guys when I was 14. When I started whining to my mom about what a horrible experience it was she asked me why I was dating. The only thing I could think of was that everyone was doing it. She told me to figure out what I wanted in a husband and when I found a guy that met my criteria, to date him. Until then forget it. I took her advice. Of course when I met my husband, I couldn't let him get away. After almost five months, when I figured he couldn't live without me, I sprang my trap.

Most of the time, it sort of goes the other way around. But if you get the feeling that a girl is trying to trap you and you kind of like the idea, let her.

I think it is completely unethical to go trolling for a new boyfriend/husband while you already have one. If you aren't satisfied with the guy you have now, say goodbye and then look for someone else.

ok cause the only reason i said yes to my current bf was because im his friend and i didnt want to hurt him and i dont want to hurt him now but staying with him is just hurting me