just bought some 30 cal 180 grain ballistic tips for my 30-06 any body know any good loads with rl22 or h4350, thanks for the input

Nosler's 5'th lists 57.0 to 61.0 of RE 22. H4350 not listed.

I've had excellent luck with 57.5 gr. IMR 4350 pushing both ballistic tips and accubonds.

also i was wondering any meat damage or what king of performance on deer sized game

I shoot 180 gr ballistic silvertips out of my o6, quarter size entry slightly larger exit, if you catch a shoulder you'll see some meat loss, otherwise nothing to worry about.