I have to agree, 1st get a DNA test and if it's not yours then get the HELL out !! Believe me, my cousin was cheated on by his wife after they already had a kid and you can't imagine the stuff that goes through your head when they are out for a night and you don't know where they are. No matter how much you "say" you trust them in the back of your mind you know you never truly will again. Don't put yourself through it.

David got it right . Go hunt'n for awhile , then go hunt for somthing else . Lots of fish in the sea , Im sure you can find one that wont tell you a HUGE lie like that .

ooooooooo, , I don't know what I'd do in your situation. On one hand its a good thing as ya'll weren't heading towards marriage anyway, right ? Have empathy for the girl, wish her and the Daddy to be and the unborn baby especially and find a good looking young gal to build another relationship with

Change is good - change means opportunity - turn this around into a positive maybe ?

Man...after seeing your second post I'd have to agree with Dave...but on the other hand, IF the baby was actually yours...

It's a can of worms. I'd probably lean toward getting away from that woman and staying away. Being with someone that's a liar is just gonna make things hard in the future.

like most are telling you get away stay away and move forward, good luck with what ever you decide....

She (still) might not be telling you the truth about you being the father because she may not want (you) to be the father. For that reason and for down the road legal reasons, you best do as was suggested and have a DNA match done.

As for the lady being totally in the wrong; according to you, your relationship was an on and off and a "friendship" thing. Did you expect her to stay in the closet when the relationship was not on or friendly?

I don't think you'll be happy until you know why she lied ,hear her out but by no mean's burn your bridges until you have the necessary answer's to your question's .You won't ever have closure if you don't get answer's.I f you already have your answer's to those question's then move on and go hunting as the other guy's say don't worry about it because there's lot's of other women in this world who would be happy to be LOYAL and HONEST. This girl just might have been playing you all along.

nubo

I'll be praying for ya red hawk, I'm sure there is someone out there for ya who won't do you wrong.

well ain't that just a turd in the punch bowl , brother it's time to kick someone to the curb , and fast!

Ouch! Lied to once again. That tells me she's either a repetitive liar or some other gal has lied to you in the past. Experience tells me it's the former. Not all but many women and men can be very manipulative. It is a sad fact of human nature. I would have the DNA test myself, just to satisfy my doubts. If the child is yours then you have to take appropriate action to support the newborn. Poor kids suffer all too often because of adult actions. Test would put closure on the subject or at least lead you to the adult action that you would need to take. My prayers are with you and the newborn to be. I'll pray for the lady also so that she might realize she needs to GET HER ACT TOGETHER. Good luck my friend.