As the others have suggested :
1. Solidify Obedience
2. Force Fetch
The best training guide for FF is "Smartfetch", by Evan Graham, and the best place to buy it is from
www.coonriverkennels.com
From your post, it sounds as though your ARE NOT following a good training program (book-tape) Right?
[b]You need to be following a PROVEN training Program ! ! ! ! ! [/]