i see what you are saying.......i really would have issues with my husband if he decided what my plans were....i would definately consider his feelings, but i would probably go anyway...i work my butt off to have the things i have and to be able to do what i love....if i was made to choose, i would choose hunting, i hate to say it, but hunting has brought me more happiness than the hubby has....now if he wants to go, i might let him go with, but if he flat out told me no i couldnt go because he wanted to go to a friends house.......sorry, you know where to find me......like i said in my previous post, i'm really happy he hunts too and that he's secure enough in our relationnship where we can do what we both want and we'll meet in the middle later, after the hunts.........