I Have to agree with what has already been mentioned, if you love your wife, there would be no doubt that she would come first. With that being said she should understand your desire to hunt as much as you can. My wife doesn't say to much about my hunting but at the end of season you can see the relief on her face. Spend some "quality time" (I have heard this term many many times) and then maybe your huntig in Dec. will be a little easier. You just have to juggle the two.