silent i never said that it was acceptable behavior. nor do i believe it is. i would have been doing everything possible to get the bow back to him asap if it were me. i just said that maybe there was a good reason for the bow not being returned promptly. is that not possible? maybe he lost a loved one or was having problems at work or got in a car wreck or his house burnt down. is it not possible something could have happened? like i said at least he got his bow back and im glad he did.