Well...I called him at work again tonight. he said he shipped the bow last "I think it was wednesday" but didn't have the confirmation number with him.

I gave him my cell again and asked him to please be absolutely sure he called me with the confirmation #...

I told him I was a little pissed and asked why he couldn't have just shipped it or called me to tell me he couldn't for whatever reason...he said "I would be too" and that he had a lot going on and "It wasnt high on his list of proirites"

He said he'd gone through an "Emergency move" and that's why the home phone was disconnected.

Sounds like I'll get it back.

Odd though...the bow I just bought came from California and was shipped on the thurs...arrived today.

Thanks for the support and I don't have any hard feelings or want any bad blood. Like I said, I just want my toy back.