i just wanted to let you guys/gals know that i appreciate all of your insight, thoughts, prayers, and last but not least..............your advice. i am back in the house and things seem to be going smooth. i told her that if it came down to a damn beverage or her and the kids, the beverage won't win!!! i told her that if she wanted me to, i would never touch another beer in my life. my inlaws aren't too happy that she took me back but they never liked me much to begin with, so i could care less what they think. anyways, i'm back on the board and thanks again!!!!