I have the same problem with my family and girlfriend. When I hunt alone it always causes problems. I feel out one time from 20 feet and they have reason to complain. It happend around five am and I was damn lucky that I am still athletic enough to land a good way. I got up checked myself and climbed right back up. The lesson I learned is to check your permenate stands every year and during the season. The stand was put up the year before and I gambled thank god I survived!