Welcome,I hope this won't confuse you.When the birds actually mate the hen goes to the tom.But the hens will pick the nesting sights and the toms will not be too far away.So in a sense the tom goes to the hen then the hen goes to the tom.confused yet?What I'm sayin is if you know where the hens are come openin mornin you will also find gobblers in the area.Good Luck