Ever since day one my wife knows that when it comes to September till the end of November is my time. We don’t argue about it and she never give me any trouble and I love her for it. The only thing that she will ask is where I’ll be just in case something would happen. We have been married a long time. I respect her time as she respects mine. For us it has nothing to do on who wares the pants. Marriage is about understanding each other.