RE: QDM or not?
Your doing good, continue to talk it up - and lead by example. QDM is a ways off for you, but your actions will help you get there. Your neighbors will notice - as will your hunting partners. leave articles on doe harvest laying around - and do your best to uphold you personal goals.
Still - though you might not take a 4 point - its important that you do not beat up your buddy for doing so. You should give him or her a big high five and be happy for them. At the same time, remember your goals and strive to meet them - don't be shy about telling others your goals - but DO NOT try cramming them down another's throat - especially if its family. - Afterall - is Deer Hunting - and in the end, you'll remember the times spent with your family, and a few special deer.