ok... here's what i look for in a guy other than hunting and fishing... he's gotta be willing to put up with somebody like me mostly... i'm rather outspoken but learn my place very quickly if i mess up... i'm also tough so he's gotta be able to deal with the fact that i may just be tougher and stronger than him... he also can't be a jerk... i've been in abusive relationships before and i will NOT tolerate ANYONE even THINKING about raising a hand toward me... they will have one less hand... other than that he's just gotta be nice to me and not afraid of me and somebody that i can trust wholeheartedly with every aspect of everything...


and thanks guys... it really helps to know that i've got real friends out there... you don't know what i've been going through here lately and this place is always a relief, so thanks for making my time here well spent and a light on my day