I bought the extreme this year and I love it. With your draw and arrow weight, I would venture a guess that you would be shooting around 270. The draw is a touch rougher on the Extreme, but not to much.
Extreme doesn't have pivoting limb pockets (no biggie IMO), I thought it had all the same bearings and such as the Patriot, in this years model, but not sure.
Wait till the Extreme comes in and shoot them both. THey are both great.