I use the GKF TKO as a drop away... it can be setup as a conventional rest also by swapping springs. I've never used the bodoodle rests. But I hear alot of people rave about them... so I'm sure they're good also. It's all about shooting what's comfortable to you.

As far as stabilizers... the GKF Tranquilizer is very light and all about absorbing vibes.. I am using a Vibracheck Icon and it works very well also.. and doesn't weight much. Alot of people like the Stealth, CAP Lore, Sims, and doinkers... Just get to a shop and try out as many as you can.