When you have held the hand and looked into the eyes of a dying 18 year girl trapped in a gar accident as she pleads to you not to let her die and you watch as the life drains out of her when you go tell a mother that you just found her 15 year son hanging from a back porch because his girlfriend left him you can lecture me about being around death like I was for 35 years until then save your lecture you have not a clue. I am not going to say anymore because it will get very heated and some of you might not like what I say so good luck I have stepped on 7 heads so far I am just leaving Alabama now on the way to Michigan where I hope to step on another see ya you win you can bully someone else off this site now !