Most farmers in NJ hate the deer because of the high populations. So you just have to ask someone who doesn't have anyone already hunting or who hasn't been asked before. I haven't hunted any of the state land so i couldn't say about it but have heard it has good deer. Another good idea for the PA side of things is to look for people with small chunks of land ,nice houses, and expensive flower gardens. They are not fans of deer at all, also tree nursery owners are not very big fans of deer either. I am considering hunting Noximixtion state park in PA this year, i have heard its pretty solid hunting in bow season.