Vince - ask questions - don't be shy. My wife has been ill for some time and has had major surgery several times. Each time she has improved. But I ask lots of questions of why, how, when, and where. I ask to see xrays and have asked how the different meds could interact with each other.
And prayers are on their way for you both. It is a trying time but hang in there.
JW
PS and let us know the outcome too!
Last edited by JW; 06-02-2011 at 12:37 PM.