First of all I don't think you're selfish at all. Im the same way... I'd been after a bird for about 3 years now, always in the same area but never when Im there. Last year he let me get 2 shots off with a bow but I missed. (I left my release in the truck and had to shoot fingers) This year I patterned him to the milisecond. Anyhow I told a buddy my plans to hunt him this year and that he was my sure kill. However that same "buddy" swore up and down about his spot and had sooo many birds and that I should hunt there... To make a long story short there were a lot of birds but they were all so skittish and even took off at the sight of my deeks. Next thing you know I get a call from him.... Hey man I got me a bird... I ask where... he said, You're spot, the one you told me about