Ok I am on vent here,
First I know any gun on any person is a nerving thing for a non carrier

I am a big guy ok, I look huge ok, I can deal with that.

The what seems to be a large stereotype that all fat guys are mean, dangoours and right now rude is way over the top.

As a kid I was the fat boy you picked on, as a teenage I was the fat young man who at times might pick back yes I always won in the end. I was never the mean rude guy or bullied others.

As an adult it seem people go out of their way to avoid contact with me for some reason thinking I am the big old fat guy who might destroy Tokyo

We go to sams club, everyone gets asked for the member card, I NEVER HAVE, makes getting in easy I guess. I asked one day a guy said why ask you, you might throw me through the wall to get in . Sure could be no one could forget my face though.

Someone calls the cops seems I am the first subject for who hit who first.

I got my conceal carry gun permit and had someone ask, why do you need to carry heck you could just tap them on the chest and they would fall over. or the old one, I would hate to run into you in a dark ally
Heck I walked into a bank once with a coat on(it was 30) the guard asked me why I was there, I said to cash a check, he said ohh wanted to make sure you went here to rob the place How many 6'5 490 pound bank robbers do you see, I mean dam by the time I walked to my car the cops would have the cuffs on, plus I can here it now, we are looking for a 495 pound 6 foot 5 male, anyone know any Not like you ant thinking of me first

Today I go to a indoor range to practice drawing and firing with my new holster, which is a type I have never used. I carry a 45acp glock, not a small gun by no means. I come out with a target that would impress Clint Eastwood, and a black couple follows, the woman tells me ohh I saw you carrying that tinny gun I figured a big guy like you would have a great big cannon . First how is a glock 21 tiny, sure in my hands a mac truck looks small, but come on, second why would you think every big guy needs a huge gun, better hit what your aiming at quickly then have a cannon that blows holes out of the wall next to the target.

Second why do so many seem to think just because I am big guy I feel the need to SMASH everything around me?

be it a 50 cal desert eagle or a 38 rev a gun is only as good as the person aiming it.

You might think us big guys mean city destroying men but we are all just big teddy bears.