I live in the east not the west and I'm sure things are different out there. But >>>and this is just my opinion.
I don't see the need in pissing anyone off, a lot of people want "just that" from us. If your right your right, period! and telling them in a nice way just makes you "right" all the more.
If they get nasty be nicer...let the game officials be the bad guys...its just a cell phone call away.