DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, AND DON'T LOOK BACK....... Trust me if she has a problem with it now she always will...... The funny thing is people really don't change too much even when they say they want too. If that is something that you really love to do and are really passionate about it, talk with her and get the facts and make sure she is going to be OK with it for the next 50 years.....
If not, get out NOW................. THAT my friend is the truth......
Compromise is what people try to do with others, when they don't like what others are doing. I.E. YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is ok to find a happy medium I guess, but just do what makes you happy.. If making her happy make you happy then slow it down. If that is not so important to you, then do you really have to look for the answer…YOU HAVE IT ALREADY… J
Last edited by markjenna; 09-07-2010 at 05:12 PM.