I told my wife that I hunt and fish ... and to get over it because I would still be hunting and fishing long after she is gone . Now my wife fishes with me on occasion and and hunts a few days a year . She knows im going hunting regardless of her plans .Now we have been married for 22 years and there has never beeen any surprises because I was upfront from the beginning. We were married on DEC 2 and just about the entire wedding party including my wife hunted that morning ... even had the wedding 7 at night so it didn't interfere with my hunting.Yes she has sisters ... and there all married... and I got the best one of the bunch.To be honest if your girl is complaining now it will never work out for you .All women try to change men .... and the guys that i know that let it happen are miserable for years ... and still end up in divorce.Good luck.