Not to defend the DR. but there was a reason for his comment. I wasn't there but am going through medical issues with my father as we speak.
The reason for that comment is, they want to know what he wants ( Living will)
I've been ask that question several times in the last year, while at the hospital.
My father has a list of medical problems complicated by two strokes in the last year.
While I wasn't there, I feel sure that is what the Dr, wanted to know.
Not trying to debate.
Since you are from Westmoreland Co. (me too) You have probably dealt with the same hospitals as me.
Some Doctors are just real jerks and lack sympathy when they ask questions.