A life long best friend of mine has a similar approach to hunting. A bit frustrating to me? Yup, but at the same time I know that he has concerns that I do not, and I will not even start to think what is right. I do know that I am pleased he tries to get out when he can, and as busy as we both are, spend what time together we can. I have been quite touched a few times when I realized how important to him the time we spend was. If he chooses not to shoot, who cares? at least the deer is still out there getting bigger. Be mellow.