That's turkey hunting...especially in NY. You just gotta keep positive, enjoy the woods, and keep after them. They can and will frustrate you. Sounds like you've got a good idea of where they are hanging out, so it's just a matter of time.
Down here in my part of NY, season doesn't start till the 24th...hopefully I'll find out where they are hanging while bow hunting deer.
Just keep at...right place, right time...