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Old 11-06-2008 | 06:59 PM
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Default RE: UGH I need advice...women not deer...

Well I am in the exact same boat you are in buddy. The only difference is I've been with her for 5 years. Every hunting season, it gets like this, and she knows it and hates it. She asks for a time schedule so I say 5 days...but then I have to hunt the 6th day, and yes she does feel like I killed her dog. It's just something that I'm used to, and she is getting a little bit better about. When I do get back to my house and spend more time with her, I make sure it is a VERY good time for her. A few dinners and she has pretty much forgotten about it.

That's just the way it goes, I know some would say leave her before it gets worse, but the truth is, it's up to you. The only way I would leave her is if she completely told me to give up hunting. I can handle a little nagging as long as it doesn't blow up too much, because I'm happier being with her and hearing a little nagging than being alone.

Anywho, good luck, and let her know that hunting is something you did before she knew you. And she doesnt have to love that, but she has to find ways to accept it the best she can.
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