I'd also like to add, if the talking to her about it, and doing something nice, doesn't do the trick,If she isn't understanding, and still mad as HECK....... you may want to make a mental note as to a possible red flag.

Personally, I probably should have paid more attention to those with my situation, and listened to friend's concerns.

The friends that will tell you the TRUTH,.. not the friends that will just agree with whatever you say and tell you what you want to hear.