First off, Retaks, you have a son?

Secondly it was highly inappropriate for the police officer to say something like that. You know all that uphold the law crap and whatnot.

Third I blame the mother for letting it escalate and still staying with a moron like that.

There is never a need to yell and scream in eachother's faces. I've never once raised my voice to my boyfriend nor he to me out of anger. We argue of course, we're human, but letting it get that bad, heck no!

Getting back to the original post, if you want to teach him a lesson in morals thats fine, but don't do it because you like the girl. Because then you'll expect something out of it, like her to come running to you or something, and she most likely won't and then you'll be disappointed and calling her a number of foul words because you got a black eye or broken this or broken that for her and she didn't even notice. Fighting over girls is just stupid.