RE: conceal and carry pistol question
Can't tell you what to get. You've got to handle (and perhaps shoot) as many as possible to get a feel for likes and dislikes. Some ranges rent guns or often other shooters will allow "friends" to shoot a few rounds on their weapons. You've also got to factor in concealibility. With some guns it's relatively easy, while others are tougher. You have to try and achieve "no printing" so that other individuals won't be able to tell you are carrying. It's all about fit, feel and conceal! Good luck.