Ok, one more and I'm through. When a doctor fresh out of med recommends to an elderly patient that they should begin walking, is that disrespect? Or when a young mechanic recommends that his grandfather get his engine fixed, is that disrespect? Its beyond me how it can be misconstrued as disrespect when all the man is doing is recommending something that will better his grandfathers as well as the entire family's hunting chances.There is no way that the accepted ideology is that elders should be able to do whatever they want whenever they want just because there older. Respect is mutual in families in my opinion, atleast thats how I was raised.

I'm not sure how thar relates at all. I guess I've just given some of this stuff a lot of thought, several of my colleagues and I get together every couple weeks to talk about stuff like this...philosophy nerds i suppose