LOL

Actually you should use what is best for you to keep it fun and safe. To be honest, when I first started with crossbows (close to 30 years ago) I was scared of loading and espically unloading the bow. But I was shown the Tech and then it was not that difficult at all. Very little of the cocking of the bow is done with your arms, it is mostly all legs, the strongest part of your body (well for most people).

But do it any way you feel comfortable with and stay safe.