I know just how you feel, and so do most people on here. your looking at this all wrong and most get discoraged like you quick, dont. you need to look at finding a place to hunt as part of the hunt. you need to change your hunting style to meet the conditions. in the 4 years that you have hunted have you done anything for the land owners that gave you permission ? that goes a long way my friend. the parsel of private that i hunt my first deer i split 50/50 with the land owner, kinda dought he will ever tell me to get lost now. christmas he gets a bottle of his favorite bubbly, and a thank you card. look at it as preseason prep. look it as cutting out your shooting lanes at your tree stand, whatever you want to call it. its a nessasary thing if you want to hunt private land and compete with others horning you out. be patient just like you would be on stand, dont look for the perfect spot either. good luck