RE: 250 vs 300gr
I'd let the gun decide.
Either bullet weight should be fine for whitetail, but some guns have definate likes/dislikes. My Lyman Mustang groups 250 grain bullets much better than 300 grain. I've read another members posts that say his Mustang is just the opposite. Seems like each barrel made has it's own character, the tough part is figuring out what your barrel performs best with.