Okay so the new bow sounds nice. Here's what I need to figure out though... I don't go hunting because I am a freeze baby and we live in MN. so that wouldn't give me enough time in the stand. But we have talked about me getting a bow just so that we can shoot together. He goes out and shoots with our 7 yr. old(boy) and 5 yr old(girl) Our kids inhereted some bows that his grandpa made and I sanded them down, restained and laquered them. I don't think I can afford 2 bows. My husband is going to be 28. How risky would it be for me to find a used bow for myself? I would probably need a youth bow. I am only abot 5'4" and weigh abot 110. I am not very strong so the weight would need to be a lot less than the bow he has so I can't use his. So maybe you can help me come up with something. Wanna hear about stabalizers. He doesn't have one. What do you recommend. He has a SilverHawk. You may not be able to find a lot of info on them cuz they don't make them anymore.