Plain and simple, your ex is playing mind games with your children. He's so full of sh!t I can smell him from here. There is ABSOLUTELY NO SUCH THING as the boys can only be on one "team." You need to suggest your ex get some counseling.He should be counting his blessings that your sons have someone to go to the woods with on his off weekends. By the way, three cheers for you for asking this questions here.

Terri S.