Being a devorced dad i see a little what he is going through .He needs to talk to the boyfriend and see what he thinks about hunting and safety and if the kids want to hunt every weekend then thats what needs to happen.Cause if they have to listen to a bunch of fussing all the time it just might push them away from hunting.Just a little jealous thats all,has your boyfriend killed some big-o deer and if he has thats why.