RE: New here, and really upset.
Well first of all welcome to the forums , glad to have you with us .
Second : sorry to hear about your grandpas nighbor being so close to where your hunting but if he's on his own property theres not much you can do.
Since his bait pile is only thirty yards away , why don't just hunt your stand anyway and if a nice buck happens to go to his bait and you can make that thirty yard shot take it.
Not only would that make your grandpas nighbor upset but if you leave the gut pile with a thank you noteat his bait pile he might get the point.