RE: Soothing words for the spouse?
I'm on my second wife because the first one had no sense of humor among other things...I now tell my 2nd wife 2 things: 1) I earned my spending money so i'll spend it in any way I want no matter what teh cost, if I want it i'll buy it & 2) i've been buying toys long before I met you & i'll be buying toys long after you're gone!!!! She understands...like I told her when we first started dating seriously...next to hunting, fishing & my dog, she'll come first!!!!!!!!!!! Brampton Mike