RE: shot one ( cant find it any ideas?)
My uncle shot a deer a few years ago and showed me the arrow. There was white fur and blood all over it also. But his deer bedded down just 50 yards away and thats where he found it. He had shot his in the white part of the neck. Although its probly not likely, it is possible that you may have hit her there. I have seen perfecly shot deer run for a very long time and this is probly what happned to your deer. Just an idea.....