Man, I know how you feel, My wife decided after 6 years together, that she just didnt want to be married anymore, and the really bad part was that we had a 2 year old little boy. We were in the midde of moving from the Twin Cities in Mn, to Austin Mn. (about 2 hours away) she decided that she was going to stay in the Cities, and I already had a new job in Austin. 2 years later, she met some guy from North Dakota, and she took my son and moved out there, 10 hours one way. Needless to say I dont get to see my son very much.(he is now 13). Any ways, this isnt about me or anyone else on here. There is not really anything anyone can say to make it better, but if you ever need to vent or just talk about things, feel free to PM me. Good luck in working things out. Keep us posted on how things are going.