ORIGINAL: ghemry
Atlas,
You are correct, but if this guys has any ethics he feels this way. Beating him up is not going to fix the problem.
I think treating him like a baby will not only not fix the problem but increase the probability it will happen again. If everyone acts like it's no big deal.......how long before people start believing it IS no big deal??
If he does not feel bad then us jumping all over him does no good either. He screwed up, and I think he knows that, and I think no why thinks "Go get him next time". What we need to do help him understand what he did wrong, I think he knows.
That is the worst part.........KNOWING you are doing something wrong and still doing it is unacceptable behavior from an adult. That is why people cut little children a break........"He didn't know" is something you say to a dog or a child........not an adult. That is why ignorance of the law is no excuse. An adult SHOULD know.......and of you don't it doesn't excuse your actions........sorry or not.
You have the right to say what you feel and I respect the fact you came out and said what a lot of peole think.
Exactly............everyone thinks it yet only a few have the stones to say it.........that is obviously not working judging by how many of these threads we have year after year. Maybe some more tough love would turn the tide on these kinds of things.